About Me!

Let me introduce myself; I'm Nicki, and like most people I've faced challenges in life. My own journey of personal development started just over ten years ago after the breakdown of my marriage. I had very little confidence in myself, and suffered anxiety over seemingly simple everyday things, like filling my car with fuel or going to a coffee shop to order a drink. I felt totally lost, at an all time low, and completely unsure of the future.

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During a counselling session I was asked ‘Who are you? What do you want from life?’ and I couldn't give an answer.

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I realised then that I had spent years living a life under the opinions, influence and beliefs of other people. Leaving me with low self-esteem, feeling unworthy and not good enough. I wasn't happy with who I had become and how I felt. I knew that I had to make some serious changes if I wanted my life to improve.

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With steadfast tenacity and perseverance, I set upon a journey of self discovery. Unfortunately, my lack of magical powers to be able to cast a spell and make everything perfect overnight, meant I had to do things the hard way! So off I went to counselling, hypnotherapy, and life coaching. I also spent hours and hours reading as many self-help books as I could possibly find (and believe me, there are a lot out there!!). From all of this, I was able to recognise and work through my limiting beliefs, change years of programmed behaviour, manage my anxiety, increase my confidence and self-esteem, determine who I was and start creating the life that I wanted to live.

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I've learned so much along the way, not just about myself but other things too; it's opened up a whole new world for me. Whilst I can still get anxious, stressed and occasionally visited by imposter syndrome, (all unavoidable human experiences!) I now have the awareness and capabilities for me to be able to manage them, instead of them managing me! I know I am not the same person as I was ten years ago, or even six months ago! This work is an ongoing and enlightening journey; every day is a school day! And, I can happily say that I am now able to fill my car with fuel (which is a relief as public transport can be so unreliable!) and not only go to a coffee shop to order a drink but confidently sit in there by myself to enjoy it (caramel lattes here we come, woo!).

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And now? Now, I'm dedicated to share what I have learned to help others, who feel stuck and unhappy where they are, to realise that it is possible to make changes to become the person that you want to be and live the life that you wish to live! Whilst I can't change your life for you (sorry, only you have the ability to do that! Note to self, add 'Practical Magic' to the list of courses to study!) I can provide you with the tools, techniques and understanding to make lasting changes.

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Over the years, I have tried as many different methodologies as I could find (and yes, some were a bit woowoo!)! To save anyone else spending ten years doing the same, I have taken those that benefited me the most and created a coaching programme to help others navigate life’s transitions, overcome obstacles, and tap into their inner strength. Empowering you to be the best that you can be! ​

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So...are you ready to transform your life?

Let's go...!